Im 28 been with my wife for 10 years. She was my first, and she was very experienced. We have not tried anything really outside the vanilla box. After going theough some stuff I accepted she will do what she wants and there is nothing I can do to affect it and I should just live my life free.The last 2 years I have been wanting to meet a guy that im into and find attractive. After looking around and getting to nervous I finally found something im willing to take risks with. He can't host but I can in a sense. Any recommendations on how to make something happen where my wife thinks he is just a friend? He is down to try coming over having some drinks together playing some games then after she heads to bed we bang it out downstairs on the couch. Nervous she might find out.
Disclaimer (self-justification) my wife has had a lesbian friend she hangs out with late nights of drinking that is the only friend of hers ive never met.
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Have you considered asking your wife to join you and your friend?
No I havent brought up 3somes since she shot it down about a year ago. It was even after a fun night of drinks and games but she was not sure about it. She brought up something similar many years ago only to try and legitimize an affair. Kinda over being in the dog house for asking sex questions lol
Call me
Probably best out of the house.
Why not do a threesome/4some if her lesbian friend is down for it!? Everybody fucks, win win!
She has told me she would get to jealous to have another women in the bedroom or share. So then I asked about another guy and she wasnt down either.
First time, shouldn't be in your house. Need to feel him out to see if it works
Don't want to make things bad at home over someone that wasn't really worth it
True, seems that I'm pushing those feeling back into hiding lol