Over the years here we've answered thousands of emails and chats, usually about 10 each day. When we see a pattern like, "what are you looking for?", we've modified our profile so if you read it, you'll know or at least ask a better opening question. We know that actually reading a profile takes time and people don't bother but lately we've received several inquiries from men (gold members) that want to hook up but are older. While we appreciate the compliments and attention, sadly we have to tell the guy that he is too old to be attractive to me. We understand the numbers game and what's to loose by asking. How would you go about telling Grandpa that you're looking for someone that can still fuck like a 20 yr old stud?
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I would hope a simple, "Thanks, but you're not what we're looking for", would do. Probably too much to hope for. That's a hot pic, by the way.
Well well
Damn
Wow I wish I could lick that cream up
I have in my profile that I am looking for people between certain ages. Yet I still get older men replying. I find there is no good way of saying no thanks. Many of these men act like little children and throw temper tantrums. I usually get anger and insults. So if you can figure it out, please share.
You're doing it wrong if you think age matters. Older men tend to be more experienced and more polite. There's a lot to be said for the generation that didn't learn sex from watching porn.
F57 (last lover IRL was M75)
Age matters. Being a free member you may not have visited our profile so let me tell you what the rest can see. You're assuming my husband isn't just another race, but 22 years older than me. You're assuming that every pic on our profile that involves sex with me and another man...that he isn't older than me...each is. You're assuming I'm being mean princess that won't give good guys a chance because of age. Age matters because of two predominate facts in life, your appearance changes (won't see too many 70 yr old beauty queens) and for men, you stop making babies. So to all you guys that go to the gym, have a six pack, run marathons, if you're over 50 your sperm count drops and all the T injections you take won't stop that. And if your last lover was 18 yrs older than you I better that daily and have for 15 years now. When you're still in your 30's and men in their 70's and 80's are in your inbox...well it would be like you getting constantly hit on from centurions. Age is a matter of perspective, but there's also some math and reality involved.
@ChocolateCakeNE you seem to conflate being a beauty queen with sexual competence. Guys may want to nail women society defines as beautiful- changes over time -for ego gratification but it doesn't guarantee good sex.
Hi, I think it simple...just say so. Its not like the 1st time hearing no nor will it be the last.
Woow
I suppose you say it just like that. I get it, my dick has seen the last of its hard most of the day times. And we all have a right to our preferences. So, enjoy! Ps: If I were in my 20's that ass would be mine. (Old man fantasies)
beautiful
wow what a beautiful wet mess
Love to taste
Incredible especially if you want to eat 🤤 like that
Hiii😍😍
With pictures like yours, it's no wonder us old farts are way turned on.
Yummy
I don't know. You have me wishing I was a 20 year old stud again
Love that photo ❤️
Well hell I am 69 years old and I still fuck 2 or 3 times a day when I get a chance with the hot and sexy 37 year old woman, she cums a lot as well. i don't need drugs to do as I do. some young like the grandpa things and I do take advantage of fucking an 18 year old. Age is to me just a number. i used to have video's of me fucking them young ones, but I took down at their request. I still have one up lol
A lot of guys have taken my personal preference as a slam to older guys and in all fairness, hubby is an older guy. If you go out to eat, you don't order what you have in your fridge.
I have found that not matter what you put in your profile, there will be those that try to gaslight you. For example, local means local, not Texas, NY, etc. For a short time, I have decided to delete all of my pics to see how fewer notifications I receive...it has been quite a pleasure not dealing with the nonsense overload.
That's a shame. We enjoyed your photos and were hoping to see more. We understand frustration, playing the numbers, and clicking on photos while ignoring the profile...not even sure if free members can read profiles. When we joined so many years ago, a new person could read profiles and send a limited number of emails or text messages each day. Those initial messages don't really bother us. They typically read as a rude cat-call, "I'd sure like to get a piece of that cake." or something boastful about his member’s size or what he could/wants to do with it. I’ve read worse on Facebook. We also understand how this site is designed not just to connect horny people like Tender without the GPS and more details, but it’s also designed to make money. Since posting this and reading the feedback, I’ve realized that I’m not irritated by old men trying their luck, but at the way this system serves us up to them as if members were shopping on Amazon or standing at a buffet choose what to eat. I’m sure that not only the search algorithms could be enhanced to display those that you might want to meet based on your desires…height, kinks, eye color, race, location, orientation, each member of a couples’ details, etc. But more importantly the algorithms determine who can and does see your profile. Of course if you could do that part yourself, do you think the site would keep many members over 60? They'd see empty pages or the same few until they get bored and quit.
I was involved in a community event and one of the participants was a gorgeous young woman who just oozed sensuality . One of the other guys asked the '
Crap. Asked the "would you " question. I said only if I was tired of living and wanted to drive the mortician crazy trying to get the grin off my corpse. Besides, I'm finding women my age group very sexually competent and people I can converse with. No insult, but people my kids ages or younger speak different language. Current lover is an 82 y/o multi orgasmic squirter who can go for hours. What more do I need?
@couplecrazies A wet wipe maybe.....
Mmmmmmm very nice
I know Paducah, Lone Oak, Reidland, and the area... folks there can read...lol. Read the text and reply to what is being said.
That is the pussy that everyman looks for!!!!!!
I had hoped the picture would get your attention long enough to read the blog.
I'd love to eat that , love clit know hot to make it grow...
Thanks and what about the advice? You read the blog right.....
I agree somewhat to your post. I would like however to remind you that you too will grow old
That is the plan. As I told the lady above. Given your posted age here, when centurions fill your inbox AND you don't want to be mean to anyone, how would you politely reject them?
I reply thank you for your nice message (if it was nice), but I'm actually looking for men under 30. I do wish you all the best. Somehow, this doesn't work very well. The usual reply will be "I look younger", "I feel younger", and an explanation of how long they can go, etc. Then I reply but I'm not attracted to you. Of course, there are young men I'm not attracted to, and I tell them they're not my type. That seems to work better. But I know they're frustrated because they're not getting a chance
BEST REPLY YET. Yes, you know. It's simply a matter of taste, desire, attraction, and your own person fantasies and reasons for being here. I'm not rejecting you personally, I'm rejecting everyone over XX age or XX miles away or XX race or XX height. I appreciate your attention as a compliment, not as an opportunity. Hubby and I lay in bed last night with today's views and emails pulled up on a phone going over people that we find attractive and most didn't line up with the fantasy. Call us picky, but we're here for us and not as some pussy public service. And while I understand that there are far more guys here chasing pussy than available, I'm not here to fix that.