After 10 years on Alt and AFF I'm still looking for something... I've learned a lot about myself, I've finally hit upon the realization that what I'm really looking for is good old-fashioned love. I'm not a player, never have been, never will be. I need a connection to be intimate. In my fantasy sexual life I'm wild and wonton...can't get enough, I believe this is the case with many folks on AFF. In reality, promiscuity is not healthy, physically or mentally.

My Ideal Person Exhibitionistic and playfulness are great features! But also, sincere, patient, empathetic, trustworthy and intelligent....they would most definitely share a sexual interest in heels, stockings and high end lingerie. They will understand the words 'foreplay' and 'aftercare' in the context of intense lovemaking... can laugh at themselves and know how to make me laugh.

I'm also interested in being friends and playing with secure professional couples. My strongest fantasies involve threesomes...