Update *****9/22/09**** Here is the short sweet version of what I am looking for! About me first: I am and will always be the perfect country gentleman; a hopeless romantic! I am/was a line dancer and line dance instructor; a salsa dancer and a tap dance student. I am also a mechanical bull rider, a deer and turkey hunter, love mudding in my big jacked up p/u truck; a military veteran of 2 sea going services, a awesome cook, a handy man, lifetime member of the handyman club of America, a pierced male with one tat, a ex husband, a loving father, a hard working MAN a non-deadbeat-dad. Business owner, HUGE FLIRT, in touch with all I am and not afraid to do what I DO! A friend, a soft shoulder, a good ear, and a respectful man who loves the female body and loves to worship it! I am also a MAN who understands there is more to breast than the nipple, understands there is more to sex than penetration. Understands that it takes at least 2 tango (and both should be satisfied). Part of my past in the military has taught me to do a job do it right and complete it. Save a ride a cowboy has special meanings to me! The only thing I like to take serious in life is my business and even that is infused with humor and flirting where I can make it fit. On a side note I hardly ever drink! I need not liquid courage to do what I’m doing. I also do not do drugs. I don’t care if you are 420 friendly. But if you are into anything harder than herb and you contact please be DAMN HOTTTTT like playboy model HOT OR just don’t do it around me! You might be thinking I am willing to bend on things but that is life no one is perfect and nothing is perfect in it. What I am looking for in a person I meet on here: Female: to me that means you were born with female parts and you still have and use them! You should have 2 legs and 2 arms and most of your teeth. If you are missing any of the previous please have something to replace it with. Age 19-59 there is room to work if you are older than that. Size depends on your attitude and confidence and personality. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; no beer goggles option. If you think you are large or ample; I might not think that. So try me out before you just pass me by unless you have too many friends! A note to anyone and everyone even Barbie is ugly with a bad personality. Personality attitude and confidence in yourself and how you bring your game can make someone sexier every time! Ladies with tasteful body art and piercings (not just ears) Go to the TOP of the list. (if one should ever happen to appear) As a single male in this game I have experienced MFM looking for the FMF (dream)! I am couple friendly. I am not gay or bi! (not homophobic either) Activities I’m looking for from here! Exhibition, voyeur, 1on1, MFM, and if I’m lucky FMF! So you are wondering what it would be like if we go out? Simple we meet at a club or a bar (please not HIP-HOP bar) get a little time in to find out about you or both of you. Some dancing salsa or country and some slow dancing. If we click we find a place to go! My place is a option but it is small(see bottom) not against one night stands. Not against multiple one night stands. I am however interested in quality time with whoever I am with!

My Ideal Person friends with benefits. my idea of that is: when I am heading into your area I call you up and we get together. Your place or mine. I have sex on the mind most of the time so I will be hoping for it. I am a perfect gentleman so If you are not up for it.. we watch a movie chill and talk and cudle and fondle. if sex happens it happens if not that is where the friends part cums in.

I do require condoms (no matter what)

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
one day I will get the whole story typed out and post a blog
on it. To give you a hint It always involves 3 or more people

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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