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rm_PhoenixRed 57 / F
""...I am that which is attained at the end of desire.""
Overland Park, Kansas, United States
 
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Member Since: March 3, 2003

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rm_PhoenixRed 57/F
Overland Park, Kansas
Introduction
Hey there. I am a pretty down-to-earth person, but I do have a wild streak in me. I am an educated professional, and because of the demands of my job, free time is not something I have in abundance. So, now I'm trying this way of meeting people. Most of my male friends would likely tell you that I am "low maintenance". I like to try new things and have diverse interests. If I had to describe myself in one word, it would be "eclectic". I am blonde/blue, and have been told that I look (and act) younger than my years. I'm looking for passion, creativity, honesty and respect from a partner. You should like to give and receive and oral pleasure - I do. I am d/d free, and you must be also. Proximity is a plus. I am the female half of a stable, intelligent, fun-loving bi couple that met right here on Adult FriendFinder. He is 5'9", black hair, brown eyes, and in great shape. She is 5'8", blonde hair, blue eyes, and curvy. We have a very solid relationship - neither is jealous, and both of us want to "expand our horizons". We usually prefer to play together, but have been known to also strike out on our own. We’re very down-to-earth people, and I think we're very easy to get along with. We are both very eclectic in our tastes regarding people, athletic activities and leisure pursuits. Our interests include motorcycles (we each have one), martial arts, and just hanging out with friends. We enjoy the relationship we have, but also enjoy the pleasures of the diversity gained with other partners. We are definitely both drug and disease free, and you must be also. All limits and boundaries are respected, always.

My Ideal Person I would like to meet other men, women and/or couples to join us in some r & r. We like to get to know our partners, and would prefer to establish friendships as well engaging in inventive "play time" with people that are open-minded and emotionally mature, without any possessiveness or jealousy.

It's been a while since I've updated this profile, so here goes:

My interests have evolved quite a bit over the last few years. There are 2 main types of men I'm looking for right now... bisexual men as partners (for both me and my mate, or me and one of our other male partners), or submissive men. I've been a Domina for over a year now and have found that I enjoy interacting with submissive men more than "vanilla" men. I prefer subs be bisexual as well. And, just in case you were wondering, no, I don't switch.

The people I am NOT looking for: I will NOT meet with married men, or those that have partners that don't know they're stepping out on the side. I am not interested in getting together with folks that are just visiting the area or are here on a business trip. I am not interested in being a third for a couple... i.e., I'm not going to be anyone's "extra female". I am not interested in straight, vanilla men.

Over a year ago, I started a group called the Purple Nation for bisexual/bi-curious men and couples with bisexual/bi-curious men. We have meet and greets about once a month. My mate and I are pretty much only meeting new people at these parties these days...we're too busy with work to meet during the week. The meet and greets are in a public bar, so it's a no-pressure atmosphere. If you want to know more, e-mail me.

Only e-mails with face pics or an invitation to your network photo album will receive a response. I have photo albums on my network that have pics of both of us, so you can see us as well. If you are a standard member, please wink or hotlist me to let us know you are interested. We'd love to get to know you. Thanks for stopping by.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 57 / female
  • Overland Park, Kansas, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Trans
Birthdate: February 13, 1967
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Occupation: Medical (Research)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Pagan
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 38 / 85 D
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Either
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