Std members can contact me Update - I'm not a "Ken", but no longer have a buddah type body. Lost a lot of weight. I know what you're thinking - 'Yeahhhhh, Right'. I've got a ways to go (I hope). I still have a paunch and some man boobs, but I look much better and still crave some human touch, caresses, etc. I have no illusions about what and who I am I'm older, almost 69, overweight a bit, have a hairy body, some man boobs and I'm married. Oh also, he says trying not to be crude, I don't have a big penis or a long tongue, and I'm uncut. Looks wise I'd say average In a nutshell. I'm unsingle and not proud about it but that's what it is. So you might think rightfully that I'm a cliche, an older married man seeking fun outside of his marriage with little or nothing to entice anyone with. What do I want/seek/need. What I miss - see below. I adore my wife and she is loving in a verbal non-tactile way. I don't want to lose her and many times I wonder what the heck I'm doing on this website. I love my wife. I love touching her. I know her feel. It feels right and comforting. But it's a one way street. It would be wonderful just to be touched back. Doesn't have to sexual. Although ultimately I would like to have some sort of sexual connection. I may be a cliche and 68 but I'M NOT DEAD YET! I get very frustrated when all it would take would be just some any physical attention other than just the usual and verbal I love you. Oh and as many guys my age with little or no access to willing females over the last years I began exploring my bi side orally. Found out that I enjoy that. I even did some kissing and caressing with one guy. Nothing beyond that interests me with men. So what do I miss: Touching, Caressing, Skin-to-Skin Contact, Foreplay, et cetera For men I don't care if you're hung or circumcised as long as you pay attention to hygiene. Other than that I have no type. For women I like BBW's, women with some curves, and not because I am, or was at any rate, a BHM. It's just my preference, although I am attracted to all shapes and sizes, except very skinny women. What I would like to find is a woman, couple, ... or even a man. Someone probably in the same situation who can get away from time to time to explore. A couple might be ideal as I cannot host and I assume they may be able to. Anyone who is interested please email me or IM me here on AFF. I am respectful and would like to develop a rapport with someone. It's no fun attempting to enjoy a stranger. Unsatisfying. Conversation first and then we'll see what we think of each other. I couldn't play with someone I didn't have a kind of connection with.

My Ideal Person What I would like to find is a woman, couple, ... or even a man Probably in the same situation as I am in who can get away from time to time to explore And get some mutual attention A couple might be ideal as I cannot host and I assume they may be able to. Anyone who is interested, please email me or IM me here on NewZealandPersonals.com. I am respectful and would like to develop a rapport with someone. It's no fun attempting to enjoy a stranger. Unsatisfying. Conversation first and then we'll see what we think of each other. I couldn't play with someone I didn't have a kind of connection with.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have fantasies that run through my head from time to time.
I should write them down. Not all are ones I think I would
try but very erotic to think about from the fly-on-the-wall
perspective.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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