5'9" 155lb, 30" waist, I'm a cut and sexy bottom looking for my top! Yes I really do want to meet that special someone whether you're submissive, switch, or dominant! I may be game for a one-night stand with the right per when I'm in an off mood but I'd much prefer to find one per to be with repeatedly on a long-term friendship basis. I want to open myself up to new experiences and am open to all races. 420 friendly Athletic, love tennis, softball, hill climbing (bike), yoga, even just taking a walk. I hate the summer heat especially the humidity so my active lifestyle is a love-hate relationship for six months a year.

My Ideal Person Someone with a big heart, who loves to laugh, cut-up, tease, cuddle, massage, kiss, hug, spank, bind, torment, punish, suck, fuck and then hold tight on quiet nights.

I love flat stomachs and round butts, like mine.

For the attitude problems out there: Sending messages that I am "missing out" after I'm not interested are regarded as self-pruning BS. I don't miss out by not being there for you to screw. It'll take a lot more than ruining your chances in the first 10 seconds to pique my interest later.

I'm disease-free as must you be. I always practice safe sex and I'm always impeccably clean. No penetration without condoms and eh emm.. .no penetration period until we get to know each other a little first. Silly gurls, seriously! I don't just fuck strangers on the internet. I want to be fucked by another real human being that I can hang out with.

I'm not looking to add friends to my stable of close friends but if it happens I will welcome it. The reason I'm here though is to train myself to be able to have purely sexual relationships, to be used, without having love in my life. All the sex I've had so far has been with relationships attached. Show me what it feels like to have joyful loveless sex?

If you're male and you want to fuck *sigh* I'd only be theoretically interested in a group situation where you bring a female companion who shares the fuck time 50/50, or more likely a gang together with a friend of mine I'm already comfortable with where we split it three ways.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Sensuality

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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