{{Written by LadySW}} Hello, I am LadySW. My Husband and Master is LordSW. I’m seeking a kajira who fits the following to serve me domestically (do chores and such), to progress into a masochist for me (someone for me to spank and flog, etc.) and eventually into a sexual relationship with both my Husband and myself. She will serve both of us, but belong to me. It will be my collar around her neck and my name she says when stating who her owner is. Meanwhile, as my Husband is my Master, the head of the home, and a Gorean Male, He would have final authority when necessary. It is unlikely that there would ever be a need for Him to ever override my authority over my slave, as we have discussed how we will both handle the situation. Note that our goal is for my slave to eventually live in the home with us for a long-term relationship. Only under certain circumstances would she be released.

My Ideal Person We are looking for a live-in, long-term relationship.

Requirements:
•female
•single in all forms, legally and otherwise
•local or able to travel to meet us & to relocate yourself and all your stuff
•independent and able to contribute to household expenses
•age 21-35, exceptions may be made up to age 45
•childless (or all your children are independent) and not looking to have children
•fit and able-bodied
•breast cup size: small B up to a large D (exceptions made at our discretion upon seeing pictures to verify attraction)
•You must not smoke, do drugs, or abuse medications. Drinking is only permitted up to a social/light level (if you are a compulsive social drinker, it will not work either).
•free from diseases
•practice safe sex always – there will be no bareback
•able to be around cats and dogs
•heteroflexible, bi-curious, bi-sexual, or otherwise interested in men and women at least under the right circumstances
•willing to give up control to both genders
•poly or interested in being poly
•willing to wait for sex until all parties are comfortable
•not wanting to be shared
•good at cleaning
•masochist, but not a major pain slut
•experienced in submitting and receiving pain, references preferred but not required
•willing to give up all your possessions within
•willing to not be on the lease – and sign a living agreement (to be discussed at a later time)
•willing to be micromanaged, but not expecting it

What will be required of you that isn’t covered above:
•take care of shaving me should I require it, and other such things like brushing my hair
•serving drinks and food, likely Gorean style – experience not necessary
•massaging either of us should it be required
•giving pedicures to me
•cleaning and other chores
•cooking simple meals if able/required (I usually cook if it’s more complicated and I like it, but I don’t always have it in me to cook)
•have a job or other method of supporting yourself

Pertinent fetishes of mine:
•bondage
•spanking, flogging, etc.
•foot worship (receiving)
•massage – strong hands are good
•domestic/service duties

Limitations/Turn-Offs:
•Neither of us enjoys giving extreme pain. He is not a sadist, really.
•injuries
•rimming (giving)
•anything involving bodily waste or excretions
•needles
•sadomasochism under influence
•sharing
•permanent marks not done by professionals
•electric play
•face slapping
•fire play, blood play, cutting
•under 21
•burning
•sissy
•abdl – I am a bit of a little, but it doesn’t come into play much, and we don’t need a second one.
•begging – for me, He may like it.
•excessive apologizing under certain circumstances
•low self-esteem (“I’m not good enough”, “I’m stupid” all the time, and such things)

You may be required to assist in health-related “checks and balances” between us. Alertness is wise.

I may still be open to a male slave, but it depends on what we find as that only fits my need and not His as He is not bi. Note that any male slave would, essentially, have to agree to chastity until/unless I allowed him a friend with benefits in the future.

This may be edited after consultation with LordSW