Not sure how to say this clearer: if you do not have an STI test do not message me wanting to meet. 5’5” Curvy BBW, long brown hair, blue eyes, college-educated professional in an open marriage I may play with others and I am currently looking for one or two men to have a long-term consistent FWB or D/s dynamic with. ——————————— MY turns-on are intelligent, dark humor, sarcastic, take-charge, in control authoritative types who can talk dirty and give orders in bed, tall, beards, and strong shoulders,... Masculinity is not toxic; it is fucking hot! A man who has his life in order as I have my life in order and takes care of the details is the type of man I respect and find attractive. For me, personality is everything and is above physical appearance. I like being submissive and spoiled in the bedroom. I am open to experimenting and fun. I would like to find a play partner experienced in bdsm play, spanking, shibari, sensory play, sensual play, wax... well you get the idea but just regular great sex would be good also. Must be a good communicator where we can both make an adult decision if going forward with a in-person FWB is an realistic option. We all have our own preferences and this should not turn into drama if one of us decides no thanks. No harm, no foul. People like what they like. I like doing online exhibition in photos/vids on this site. It is a huge turn on to post here but I am pretty introverted in person. I don’t do couple vids/photos until we have been seeing each other for a bit. I guess I would be classified as a demisexual/sapiosexual as I need to be attracted; comfortable around you as person before jumping into bed and more so to film with you. ——————————— I am not interested in: Random hook-ups, one hit wonders or traveling to your city meet ups. Men who are submissive and/or want the woman to take charge in the bedroom are an instant turn off to me. I am NOT interested in trans, women, bi-men, couples looking for their “unicorn”, pegging, submissive men, men in women's lingerie, degrading/humiliation, pee, poo blood ect… I am also NOT interested in the endless cybersex/sexting. It's boring, does nothing for me and most of you make it feel like a job to perform for you. No thanks. As for couple play… I am not bi. I am NOT your “unicorn”. I am not interested in having sex with another woman. I am open to playing alone with the husband with wife’s approval. ———————————- Non-negotiables: Must have STI testing done and can show proof of a clean test. I cannot host. I do not travel outside of my location. I do not do 50/50 on hotels or travel. We need to talk a little to see if their is any chemistry and if what we like in the bedroom is compatible. We must meet in person in public before the bedroom. Must be respectful of my boundaries; be honest and upfront about what you are looking for. Must be clear about your schedule and times meeting would work. If our schedules do not align there is no point meeting in person. ---------------------

My Ideal Person My turns-on are intelligent, dark humor, sarcastic, take-charge, in control authoritative types that talk dirty and gives orders in bedroom, tall, beards, and strong shoulders,... masculinity is not toxic; it is hot. For me, personality is everything and is above physical appearance.

Men who take charge in planning and have the details for a first in public meeting time and place, real location to play, times available for future play, what they are looking and good communication go to top of the list and are most likely to get a yes from me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Role Playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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