We have been in the Swinger Lifestyle for 20 years and want a full time permanent relationship with another couple or group. We have done full swap with several couples but now are looking for a deeper relationship that goes beyond sex. We are mostly soft swap and enjoy the fun of the chase. Flirting, teasing, playing and maybe.. Our Plan for the first soft date. We will arrive separately at the Hotel. They have a full service 5 star facility the is ideal for a romantic date. We would have two separate adjoining rooms with two double beds in at least one room. After arrival, we would meet in one of the rooms or a common area for a glass of wine. We will talk and break the ice together. After the wine, Ken and male would quickly shower and go to the lobby bar to await the ladies. The ladies will dress together and talk about the evening. When they appear at the bar the date will begin. Your wife will be mine and Dee yours. I should mention that Dee is a bit of a push over for gentleman. She loves her chair pulled out, drinks ordered, door opened for her. I will do the same for Your wife. We will start the date in the bar listening to music and talking. You should focus on Dee and I will do the same with Your wife. During our conversation touching is a must hands face and arms. This is a physical dropping of natural barriers and starts a more intimate contact between the individuals. It is helpful if it is mutual between each of the couples. After one round of drinks we will go to dinner at a romantic table. Hopefully we can find a booth so we can sit next to our dates. During dinner, you should take charge of your date ordering for her. Complement her and touch her neck face arms and thighs under the table (if you want to). She will replicate, and I will do the same with Your wife. At some point during dinner Dee will excuse herself to go to the bathroom. You should offer to accompany her. During this brief moment, you should find a secluded location and make out with her for a few moments. Holding her grabbing her body as you feel comfortable. I will also do the same with Your wife later before dinner ends. After dinner will go to a club with suitable music to dance. During the dances, you should use this opportunity to touch and hold Dee as you would Your wife. She loves to dance slow and during those moments you should feel free to kiss her neck and hold her ass Holding her tightly and position your body against hers. During the dances I will focus on Your wife and do the same as we dance and talk. After the club (the W has a late night bar and dance band), we would adjoin to our rooms for a few ice breaker games. These are swinger games we have adapted to fit the “soft situation” we enjoy. We would play these as couples and they range from strip poker to truth of dare. The games will involve more intimate contact and nudity and that would trigger the start of our “full date experience”. At some point we will adjoin to the double beds. You and Dee in one and Your wife and I in the other. We would then make and seduce our dates our dates. We should each undress the other date and attempt to have them reach orgasm from touching and oral. They would do the same for us but we would save our orgasm for our wives. After the ladies are Cumming we should then switch partners and make love to our wives in different beds but in the same room. After we should take showers together. Each with the other partners and if it’s not too late try for a second round of games and play. Now this is a sample of a “soft date” and we are not suggesting this is the only way we play. This has worked in the past and was the basis for our concept of a “cross date”. Naturally we would want yours and Your wife’s approval and buy in on each and each aspect of the evening. ..

My Ideal Person A Couple that is willing to share life not just in the bedroom but in life. Tired of trying to be spicy all the time. Want a comfortable relationship that can go to a movie together and dancing and cross date with each other. Flirt touch and more if we click.

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