(Currently, AFF will not allow me to read your emails, why I don't know. Try me on IM, that still works, so far.) I'm normally a regular heterosexual married guy... except I’ve always thought that the size of my penis was inadequate, and I’ve always been jealous and envious of those men with the big, thick, hard cocks. Size does matter; the big ones have a power surrounding them; they demand respect, even reverence. Every woman I’ve been with has cheated on me, all of them, and they’ve done it with ‘larger’ men than me. I love to masturbate when I'm alone; I love the feel of my hand stroking it, and I really love to use one of my vibrators or massagers to get off. I especially love the feel of another hand stroking me and another male body rubbing against mine, using me to get off on. While outwardly straight, I've accepted that I have a bi-sexual side that occasionally feels the urge for some discrete "male bonding" with another guy in similar circumstances. I'm not into anal at all; but I do love watching videos, mutual stroking and wrestling around, letting our stuff rub together. I am clean and disease-free, and intend to stay that way. I'm looking for another married or attached guy, in a similar situation, to play male bonding with; or maybe a guy who’s straight but his wife won’t give him head. I can assure you that a man can give head as good as a woman! Men’s cocks, especially bigger ones than my 4”, fascinate and entice me. I can’t keep myself from touching them, tasting them, making them respond to me. I confess, I’m a cocksucker. While I can be flexible in roles, I normally tend to become submissive with another man. I’d want you to use me for your pleasure, within my comfort zone. If you have a bigger cock than mine, and most men do, take charge and feed me that stiff lollypop, and surprise me with the creamy filling. You don’t necessarily have to reciprocate; giving pleasure is my pleasure. Unhappily, my spouse is very homophobic, and none of my friends, family, or acquaintances would be understanding of my bi-sexuality; so I have to be very, very discrete and careful, to the point of being paranoid, sometimes. I have limited available time during the week, but I do occasionally have a few free hours in the evenings, and often have some free time in the afternoons on Sat and Sun. I can’t host but I can come to you. Write me if you'd be interested in helping me satisfy my sub-bi-sexual side.

My Ideal Person I want to play with married horny bi or bi-curious guys in similar circumstances, very discrete and not looking for a "relationship", just a j/o buddy for some mutual masturbation, "frottage", or good head. If you're married, but have that urge to get off with a guy, write me, let’s talk and maybe we can rub some body parts together, in private! Remember that you won’t be expected to do anything in return; just lay back and enjoy if that’s your desire. If you’re straight but just want some good head, that’s great. Don't even tell me your real name.... anonymity makes it more exciting!

(I'm very curious about trying electro-stimulation toys! I'd like to find a guy who would use his electro-stim equipment on me, show me how it works, how to use it, how it feels. Having a guy watching me respond to it would be hot, too! Any volunteers?)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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