Having a cocktail/coffee and learning about each other is a great way to start. It is overwhelming for women on this site. Please be patient. No response doesn’t necessary mean I’m not interested. We all haves lives too. I won’t add filters to my photos and expect a somewhat recent picture in return. I won’t post an old picture and try to pass it off as current. Misrepresentation is awkward for both parties. Would you want your , sister, important woman in your life to show up at a strangers hotel room for sex. I think not so don’t ask until after we’ve met first. I won’t respond to profiles without pictures or profiles with dick pics. Just because I enjoy the company of a man doesn’t mean I’m not a lady. We all deserve respect for ourselves and others. Wishing you what you are looking for 💋